During pregnancy, I noticed a darkened line that extended from my naval southward. Thank hormones for that one.
After I gave birth, it remained.
I loved that line. (notice, it’s past tense – “loved,” not “love”)
I wore it proudly as a badge of honor. It symbolized that I had given birth to a new life. I came to see it as a reminder of the gift I had been given, the honor of birthing a soul I’d be entrusted to care for.
I proudly wore a bikini, though still carrying baby weight, just so I could show that line. I hoped people would notice.
As it began to fade, I wished it back. Why would it leave? I was still a mother, so why not keep that line?
It may sound silly, but I cherished that stripe, that mark, that designation that only came from one journey.
Whoever took it, can I get it back? Thanks. 🙂
Love,
Me
I love that my body produces just the right amount of food for my little babies. Breastfeeding has been such an amazing experience, even though it comes with challenges. Thanks for sharing this and reminding us to embrace our post-pregnancy bodies!
Angela, yes! That also amazes me still. I still revel in the concept that I was able to feed my daughter from my body, for a long time! I had challenges as well, and at one point, at 5 months, I almost gave up as I had almost totally lost my milk supply. I remember sitting on my bed sobbing, not thinking I could do it anymore. But something in me wouldn’t let me give in to the challenge, and I persevered, built it back up, and never once did I have to give her formula. It was one of those moments that made me feel most like a mom, and for me, a representation that we have strength in us that we never know until we are tested. Thanks for sharing your post with us! 🙂